I can hardly believe that I have arrived at the end of my son’s kindergarten year. It felt like eons before he could even enroll in public school, even though I did so as soon as he was old enough, on the cusp of turning five with some behaviors that were equally on the cusp. I had a few weeks of concern over his adjustment, but then, after he turned five, he was magically fine. Something clicked.
My son appears to experience distinct leaps in growth. The first one involved two night terrors a night apart, after which he emerged sleeping through the night, walking, and never having another night terror at fifteen months. Every August I feel that he has turned the next age in his maturity, when his birthday hovers around Halloween. Facebook reminds me every year with bringing back posts on different years where I captioned, “a lot of growth this month!”
And now here he is with a kindergarten musical this upcoming Friday and here I am talking about the Jane Austen re-telling that I feel is the most about growing up than all her major novels…
Emma (The Austen Project #3), Alexander McCall Smith
I really liked this one. Emma might be my favorite Austen novel now. I loved Pride and Prejudice first, once I had gotten enough understanding of the plot. At the time in my life I fell in love with the story I was hoping for some secret rich guy to fall in love with me from the wings. I needed it to happen back then before I met my husband when I was floundering around in relationships that were frustrating and confusing in the impecunious years of youth and school and very little stability. Pemberley? Just because I am my feisty self? Whaa? I watched my favorite Pride and Prejudice movie after I got married and it didn’t give me the same hope. Because I didn’t need it anymore. I had created my own stability.
The author beat me to the punch on this one with the age difference. Mr. Knightley is is established early on as being already established in the world and a bachelor to boot, but he specifically discusses how a fourteen year age difference didn’t impede the couple’s growing regard. He talks about how they care about each others opinions and slowly begin to find the other interesting. I think them ending up together was less of a surprise in this one than in the original. Also, with my own writing instruction and my love of and familiarity with this plot, which extends to the movie Clueless, I could easily spot the setup in the conversations Emma had with her governess that set up the growth that she was about to experience through her actions in the rest of the novel. Maybe it isn’t that I am better at picking these things out, it might just be Smith’s artistry. But I liked it.
This one felt truly modernized, not just the same plot with some cell phones, texting and social media tossed in there, like Sense and Sensibility felt like. There was the classic useless parent, this time a father, who doesn’t move her growth along nearly as much as her governess. I like that she makes the active choice to stop being idle and trying to arrange people’s lives from her pedestal and learns that truly helping others more than just telling them what to do is the true fulfillment. This combined with having her own occupation and contribution also helped make it seem more modern to me. Her contribution in the original one is just to get married, which a happy marriage is the highest they can aspire to back then, but with her choosing a real direction with her life was much more modern and satisfying.
So, Emma grows up, and my boy is at a milestone.
I don’t know where my next post is coming from. I need to re-read a classic for my novel and I have a BookRiot book post waiting for use, but neither of those go on my retelling streak and I have not completed all my books that are re-tellings of classics. So, I am not sure. And being that it is summer, I need to start posting every other week again, to give me time for other writing.